The 30 Most Romantic Date Ideas Around Philadelphia
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Even in the rather unromantic age of Tinder and Free Porn, most of us still yearn from time to time for a little romance. For a little fun. For a little break from the couch, and a chance to connect over something other than Netflix. The next time you and your significant other are hunting for something other to do, we’ve got you covered with a list of 30 especially great date ideas — from group dates to sporty dates to sexy dates and beyond — that will serve you now and throughout the year to come.
Active Date Ideas
If you’re even a little bit sporty, then you’ll find the Schuylkill River Trail to be the perfect date: You can chat and pedal your way through the wooded path all the way to the Conshohocken Brewing Co. (it’s just past Manayunk if you’re coming from the city) for suds and snacks — the bar is located along the banks and has plenty of bike parking.
Roller skates. Black lights. Pop music. Arcade games. The Cherry Hill Skating Center has everything you remember from your pre-teen dating adventures, minus the pre-teens. Just go on the first Friday of every month, for the designated adults-only skate from 10 p.m. to 12:30 a.m. And as long as you’re going old-school, you can also hit nearby steakhouse standby, The Pub in Pennshauken, for frozen drinks, cheap (but tasty) steaks, help-yourself sides, and endless kitsch.
You don’t need reservations or experience to race the Italian go-karts at Horsham’s Speed Raceway — just show up, sign up and they’ll give you training, a helmet and your car — all you need for your own Mini Grand Prix. After the trash-talking, you can make nice again over a dinner by the fire at the beautiful Blue Bell Inn. Loser buys.
Forbidden Drive is an easy, popular, hilly hike with easy access near Lincoln Drive. Walk it for about an hour, and you’ll wind up at the quaint and historic Valley Green Inn in Chestnut Hill, which has brunch, booze, hot chocolate, and a waterfront view.
Cheap Date Ideas
In honor of the ultimate Philadelphia penny-pincher: Stroll across the Ben Franklin Bridge’s southside walkway, enjoy the (toll-free) view of the city, and then warm up with the so-decadent hot chocolate at the Franklin Fountain spin-off Shane Confectionery in Old City. If you have any pennies left, you can make your way over to Christ Church, and toss ’em on Ben’s grave.
Since the Curtis Institute of Music in Rittenhouse opened its doors in 1924, every student — from Leonard Bernstein to Lang Lang — has performed in the school’s free recitals, held mostly on Mondays and Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. and Fridays at 8 p.m. Show up 15 minutes early for prime mid-center seats; piano aficionados, sit to the left for the best view.
If you have a penchant for the slightly geeky, just head north on 611 to Ringing Rocks County Park in Upper Black Eddy, where you’ll find an expanse of rocks that ring like bells when you whack ’em. Bring a hammer, bang out a tune, and speculate about the phenomenon’s origin. (Ice Age anomaly? Supernatural playground?) On the way home, stop at the Sand Castle Winery for a cellar tour and tasting.
Sexy Date Ideas
Spa, Dinner, and Drinks
If you can’t get lucky following an afternoon in the hotel spa at the new Four Seasons, a romantic dinner at Vernick Fish (get the scallops — trust us) and nightcaps at the 60th floor bar JG Skyhigh— which comes with some of the most impressive views in town — then we don’t know what to tell you.
Talk about a great date idea: Each and every Friday night, the Old City pottery gallery known as the Clay Studio offers “date nights” at which you get to channel your inner Demi/Patrick while shaping wet clay on your own potter’s wheel. The $40-per-person fee includes beer, wine, and light snacks, plus free shipping of your glazed and fired pieces to your home; pre-registration is required.
Oysters and Live Music
The Paris Bistro & Jazz Café has lots of raw oysters, an authentic Parisian bistro menu and live jazz music Thursdays through Sundays that make for the perfect night out before the perfect night in (you’ll need to make a reservation). And with the (affordable!) rooms at the Chestnut Hill Hotel right next door, you might not have to go far.
You might be looking to get straight to the point, and at the Velvet Lily in Midtown Village, talking about sex doesn’t feel silly. Book a one-hour private shopping session at Philly’s poshest X-rated shop. The shop requires a $300 deposit, with the fee going toward a $500 spending minimum.
Group Date Ideas
Sign your crew up for a block of time at Sky Zone trampoline park — jump times start every hour — grab your free Sky Socks, and feel like kids together for a while. Pre-gaming not recommended. Located in Oaks, Glen Mills and Moorestown, NJ, and North Philly.
Meat and Cheese Tasting
Pull together eight people for a private after-hours event at the 9th Street DiBruno’s in Bella Vista, and you can sample tons of meats, cheeses and olives. Chat with experts, BYOB, and get 20 percent off all purchases. It’s $60/person Tuesday through Thursday and $70/person Friday through Sunday with a $120 deposit to hold reservation for a group of eight; larger parties are accommodated, too. Advance booking is required.
Might as well just avoid that tedious “How many small plates should we get?” conversation entirely by having a special-order meal designed for a group. At Michael Solomonov’s Abe Fisher in Rittenhouse, you can opt for an order of short ribs for the table or Hungarian duck for two; at Old City’s Amada, the suckling pig comes with family-style fixings. Or you can simply make the meal the experience: With signature punch bowls, the Benihana hibachi chef acrobatics become even more impressive (that’s in Cherry Hill), while the huge round tables at Chinatown’s Ocean Harbor are perfect for a crowd, and you can grab what you want off rolling carts that are teeming with tasty dim sum.
The indoor Keystone Mini-Golf and Arcade in Kensington makes for a fun-filled night of nostalgic Americana, with 18 holes, vintage arcade games and a BYO policy. It’s also just a short walk to Fishtown’s Frankford Hall, where there’s brats, giant Bavarian-style pretzels, ping-pong, Jenga and giant tables that will easily fit five or six couples.
Boozy Date Ideas
If you steer clear of the big crowd-magnets like Green Eggs and Sabrina’s (where you’ll be stuck waiting in long lines, making small talk on an empty stomach), a brunch date can be perfect: low-pressure, as quick or leisurely as you make it, and perfectly acceptable day-drinking. A few great brunches on your short list should be East Passyunk’s Black ’n Brew, Pennsport’s The Dutch, Alla Spina, and the jazz-themed Sunday brunch at Jerry’s Bar in Fishtown.
The bright and beautiful Philadelphia Distilling Company in Fishtown offers tours Thursdays through Sundays, starting at $15, or you can learn to mix a drink like a pro or tend a home bar in their classes, starting at $75. Alternatively, take the ultimate low-key route: find a seat at the bar and sip on some sumptuous cocktails.
Turn your date into a mini road trip out of the city by taking a one-hour drive to Va La Vineyards in Avondale. Visit the tasting room inside a 19th century barn with views of the vineyard, then try the small-batch dry wines as a part of the $20 Field Wine Tasting Flight, which comes served with local foods and “tidbits from our farm.” The tasting room is open Friday, Saturday, and Sunday afternoons.
Yards Brewing Company, that venerable NoLibs beer mecca, offers $10 40-minute tours on Saturdays and Sundays that include a couple samples of the signature ales. (Tours run from noon to 5 p.m on Saturday and noon to 3 p.m. on Sunday — and fill up fast — so it’s best to get there early.) Afterward, retreat to the Yards Tap Room for $6 or $7 signature ales and noshes from James Beard Award semifinalist, Chef Jim Burke.
Brainy Date Ideas
Take your main squeeze for a Toblerone and a foreign flick at the artsy Bryn Mawr Film Institute or at Chestnut Hill’s Woodmere Art Center, which screens “rare and underscreened” films every Tuesday.
It sounds macabre (hell — it is macabre), but Laurel Hill Cemetery offers a variety of self-guided tours that are surprisingly entertaining and truly fascinating glimpses into Philly history. Afterwards, you can keep it just a little dark at Time restaurant in the Midtown Village, where the mood is sultry and the absinthe is free-flowing.
The interactive gallery inside the Fashion District is intended to be an alternative to date night — hence the bar near the entrance where you can grab a drink, then sip it as you stroll past the Instagrammy installations created by artists from all over the globe.
Speaking of dark: The Mütter Museum’s compendium of medical oddities in Center City can spark some pretty interesting discussions (and make you appreciate modern medicine), and it’s just a stone’s throw from University City’s Penn Museum. For $31 you can get into both, which makes it easy to museum-hop. Afterwards, grab some farm-to-table grub at nearby White Dog Cafe.
In keeping with spooky theme, The Edgar Allan Poe house is open Friday to Sunday and offers a great opportunity to learn about one of the most well-known and grim authors of the 19th century. You can take a self-guided tour — no reservations necessary.
For a special date this Valentine’s Day (or later, if you can wait until the spring), you can visit the one-of-a-kind Skyspace at the Chestnut Hill Friends Meeting — an art installation by famed artist James Turrell that involves a retracting roof, the sky, LED lighting on the ceiling and an interior light display that runs about an hour or so, playing off nature’s own light at dusk and dawn. Registration (which is required) is here.
Romantic Date Ideas
Open April 1st through November 1st, there’s just one path at Wayne’s Chanticleer Garden, but it swings you past a variety of mini-gardens with plenty of places to sit and chat and eat. Pick up simple sandwiches at the clandestine cafe in Valley Forge Flowers before you go.
Why not start by stargazing at Fels Planetarium in the Franklin Institute in Center City, where you can hold hands and feel like dreamy adolescents again? If you want to really get your hearts pumping, you can follow it up with a private dance lesson at Society Hill Dance Academy, followed by a nightcap at Bella Vista’s Good King Tavern, a dim-lit corner bistro that’s more Paris than Philly.
For a little more quality couple time, you can head to New Hope and get a room at the Inn at Bowman’s Hill. It’s quaint, and mercifully free of B&B weirdness (no shared bathrooms), and there’s a breakfast-in-bed option. And while you’re in the area, might as well hop on the New Hope & Ivyland Railroad, an old-timey train that takes passengers on a 45-minute tour of Bucks County. (There’s a bar cart!)
Who new plants could be romantic? But with warm indoor greenhouses and lush arrays of flowers at Longwood Gardens ($25 for adults on non-peak days), you and your date will feel as if you are in a tropical paradise. Then after the plant perusing, visit the restaurant inside the gardens, 1906, and delight in their seasonal menu.
You can take in the sunset — and the spectacular view — from the city’s new observation deck at One Liberty for $15 a person, then come down a notch (to the 37th floor of Two Liberty) for drinks and oysters on the half-shell at the R2L, where the darkened dining room and skyline views make for a dramatic and lovely setting.
Originally published as “Philadelphia in Love” in the February 2015 issue of Philadelphia magazine. Updated with additional reporting by Madison Cassel and Grace Maiorano.