Here Is the New Jersey Bill That Would Criminalize Lying to Get Sex

N.J. Assemblyman Troy Singleton introduced a bill last year that would create a new crime: Sexual assault by fraud.

Last December, New Jersey Assemblyman Troy Singleton introduced a bill that raised eyebrows: It would create the crime of sexual assault by fraud. Lying for the purposes of getting sex would now be against the law.

The bill attracted attention (of the negative variety) across the political spectrum. “His law is so vague and wide-reaching that it’s easy to see how pretty much everyone could be considered a rapist,” Amanda Marcotte wrote at Slate,” because, as any quick perusing of OkCupid can tell you, representing yourself as someone you are not is a universal behavior.” Reason‘s Elizabeth Nolan Brown agreed: “But giving the state broad discretion to adjudicate lies between lovers would yield a hotbed of unintended consequences, not to mention the (obviously intended, yet despicable) consequence of furthering the creep of law enforcement into all areas of our lives.”

Last week, the Daily News profiled the New Jersey woman who inspired the bill, Mischele Lewis. She met a man on a dating site in 2013 who claimed to be Liam Allen, a secret agent for the U.K. government. In reality, he was William Allen Jordan, a convicted bigamist. Lewis had forked over $5,000 to him for a fake security clearance.




Prosecutors attempted to charge him with sexual assault by coercion, but the grand jury didn't indict. "I truly believe that we have to look at the issue of rape as more than sexual contact without consent," Singleton told NJ.com last year. "Fraud invalidates any semblance of consent just as forcible sexual contact does. This legislation is designed to provide our state's judiciary with another tool to assess situations where this occurs and potentially provide a legal remedy to those circumstances." Singleton didn't return a request for comment for this story.

Singleton's bill doesn't have any cosponsors, and appears to have little chance of passing. Other states do have sex-by-deception on the books, but they appear to be more limited. "These two exceptions — sex falsely represented as a medical procedure, and impersonation of a woman’s husband — have been for over a hundred years the only generally recognized situations in which Anglo-American courts convict for rape-by-deception," Jed Rubenfeld wrote in the Yale Law Journal in 2013. Rubenfeld writes the spousal-impersonation crime is the law in 14 states. Joyce Short, who wrote a book called Carnal Abuse by Deceit: How a Predator's Lies Became Rape, has a detailed rundown of state-by-state laws.

Read Singleton's proposed bill below.

New Jersey Sexual Assault by Fraud bill

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  • Fred Phien

    Would there be any sex at all if nobody could lie? And what kinds of lies are we talking about. Padded bras come to mind for example – would those be illegal now? What about jeans that enhance the figure. Cosmetic surgery?

    • http://www.MischeleLewis.com NeverAgain

      It’s not for trivial thugs such as that. There is still a choice to get someone naked, see that they aren’t how they seemed in their clothes and NOT sleep with them. It’s not about aesthetics people. It’s about lying and knowing you are lying to your partner for the sole sake of sexual gratification in egregious ways. You have to have evidence, not just she said, he said. Otherwise the police and prosecutors will not even touch it .

    • Richard Wagner

      It’s only lying, or now possibly rape, when men do it, you should know that by now.

  • http://www.MischeleLewis.com NeverAgain

    Um, this article is incorrect. My bill has 2 cosponsors: Gabriella Mosquera and Pamela Lampitt. It’s right on the page that they scanned in. Obviously the author cannot read.

  • http://www.CADalert.blogspot.com/ Joyce M. Short

    Here’s what people really should know about sexual assault by fraud…….

    In order for the police to make an arrest, the prosecutor to pursue the case, and the grand jury to hand down an indictment, there must be substantial proof of a crime. And the victim must have behaved in a responsible fashion as is the case in all crimes. It’s only situations in which the offender thwarted the victim’s efforts toward reasonable knowledge that a charge could be made.

    Yes, people lie all the time to attract someone. And the internet is full of folks who puff themselves up to be someone they are not. When they do so to get your attention, they are not committing a crime….. it’s simply a lie. But when they fail to set the record straight BEFORE having sex with you, they are assaulting, not seducing you. They are not entitled to trick you into sex. Doing so deprives you of consent.

    So, yes, they can lie to attract you. No, they can’t lie to have sex with you. If they lie on their dating profile, the time to straighten it out is BEFORE you have sex.

    Does that mean that all offenders would go to jail?

    Of course not. You need considerable proof about their hoax, and you also need to prove that the offender thwarted your reasonable efforts to know the truth about them. It has not posed a problem in either Alabama or Tennessee where the laws on sexual assault by fraud exist. In Alabama, it’s a Class A misdemeanor called Sexual Misconduct. In Tennessee, it’s a felony.

    June 15th will be the very first annual international Truth In Romance Day. It’s been established in order to bring this issue to light. (See #TruthInRomance)