How to Be the Best-Dressed Person at Every Holiday Party

Holiday Party Outfits

Technicolor party dressing. | Images via andersphoto / Stefano Tinti / HUANG Zheng /

When you boil it down, standing out from the crowd is actually pretty easy. Three words: Wear. Something. Different. It’s not about wearing the most expensive clothes, or even the fanciest clothes; it’s about making a statement. And there’s no simpler way to do this than to veer from the rest of the fashion pack, even if only a by a few degrees. This means eschewing the tried-and-true LBD for, say, a sleek black jumpsuit (perhaps this one, which masquerades as a dress?), or ditching the sequined dress for sequined pants (obviously).

Easier said than done, perhaps. We’ve long been told, after all, that LBDs go a long way. And they do; they’re reliable, dependable, sturdy wardrobe workhorses that bear the brunt of our But what do I wear?! freak-outs. But as good as fail-safes are, they can sometimes be, well, safe. And standing apart is anything but.  Read more »

Watch: Christmas Came Early

If you’re dreaming more of fun in the sun than a white Christmas, you may enjoy singer-songwriter Keo Nozari’s new holiday anthem, “Christmas Came Early.” Be on the lookout for gold hot pants, a few crazy party guests and even an angel twink having some homo-rific hijinks around the pool.

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Gay Chorus Sings Chick-Fil-A

Gay choral groups around the country always seem to have great twists on holiday favorites. That’s definitely true for the One Voice Chorus in North Carolina which recently sang about Chick-Fil-A to the tune of Lee Greenwood’s “God Bless the U.S.A.”

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What We Love: Your Holiday Mom

For many LGBT young people, the holiday season can be especially difficult as they navigate family, religious communities and their own feelings. That’s what inspired as many as 40 real moms (and some dads) from around the country to join, a website offering messages of support to the community.

The concept was started by a woman named Robin Rice who sent recorded messages to young people under the guise of Your Holiday Mom. She eventually recruited other parental figures to join the cause. Here’s an example of just one of the messages being shared this season:

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Deck East Passyunk Ave.

East Passyunk Avenue has become a kind of second Gayborhood in recent years. And for good reason. The gay-friendly enclave is not only home to many in the LGBT community, but also plenty of gay-owned shops, restaurants and other attractions. To celebrate everything we love about this creative little enclave, The East Passyunk Ave. Business Improvement District (EPABID, for short) is kicking off a new, month-long “Deck the Ave” campaign tonight (Nov. 29) with events, sales and promotions at more than 150 independently owned retail shops, restaurants and bars.

It all gets started with the official Tree Lighting Party at the Singing Fountain (5 p.m.). And starting on Saturday (Dec. 1) – and every Wednesday through Dec. 22 – kids can have their photo taken with Santa at Alphabet Gardens.

Here’s a roundup of events:

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Simon Doonan Does Halloween

Doonan and Ravenswood present the ultimate Poe-inspired party (photo courtesy of Ravenswood).

With Halloween, perhaps the gayest holiday of the year, just around the corner, we wanted to share some creative inspiration from Simon Doonan. The gadfly and former window dresser for Barney’s New York (also Jonathan Adler’s longtime squeeze) teamed up with Ravenswood Winery to channel the spirit of Edgar Allan Poe this season. And as many of us may know, Poe spent many years in Philadelphia penning his masterpieces, so these how-to tips for the ultimate Poe party could never be lost on our gay denizens, right?

Here are Doonan’s Do’s and Don’ts for the ultimate Edgar Allen Poe-themed party:

Doonan as the Queen (photos courtesy of Simon Doonan)

Do enjoy it. Halloween is definitely my favorite holiday beacuse it is all about self-expression and fun … and some quality hooch. Nobody dreads Halloween. People always feel good about Halloween. It’s a great time to express your personal style and your sense of fun.

Do impersonate. What better time to pay homage to your heroes and anti-heroes? I’m talking Ziggy Stardust, Winston Churchill, Kermit or Kim Kardashian, and yes, Mr. Gothic himself, the late great Edgar Allan Poe.

Do let it rip. Halloween is a great time for a little hedonism, by which I mean knock back the Ravenswood (how Poe-tastic is that Raven-embellished label?) and have a good time! A really, really good time.

Do look stylish. Halloween is also the perfect opportunity to step up your fashion quotient: higher heels, daring chapeaux, tighter frocks … and that’s just the men.

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