We thought our husbands felt more comfortable at Nurture than any other spa because of its minimalist, mod design. Then it was our turn to go, and we melted at first touch: Facials are pampering and productive. (We love the extra attention they pay to our feet and eyes.) Massages are as thorough as they come. And owner Carolyn Holdsworth, a New York import, is a slave to service and attention: Guests even get handwritten thank-you notes!