Like everybody else, I’ve been reading way too much about Hillary Clinton’s emails. I’ve read that her use of a private in-house server violated federal law. I’ve read that her use of the server didn’t violate federal law. I’ve read that her using that server is a big-ass scandal. I’ve read that it wasn’t a big-ass scandal. I’ve read that she had information in those emails that was classified, and that she didn’t have information in those emails that was classified — at the time. Frankly, the whole mess makes my head spin.
Why does it make my head spin? Because I’m a Technically Challenged Person (TCP), and technology perplexes me.
I’m the person you don’t want to ask to take a picture of your family with your iPhone, because I’m the person who keeps seeing pictures of my own face on the screen of my iPhone when I’m trying to take pictures of my son’s football game. And I’m not alone. There’s a substantial subset of Americans who get very, very flustered when they can’t get the remote control to make the TV set come on. It’s been my experience that the children and spouses of people with this condition will rush to their aid and perform the necessary technical operations themselves, rather than patiently walking the TCP through it, because a) it stops the screaming so much sooner; and b) trying to walk a TCP through it is a waste of time. Read more »
In an odious “story” in today’s Daily News, Stu Bykofsky, a man whom I have never met, makes the huge (and hugely male) presumption that he knows why I had an abortion 40 years ago, how I felt about it then, and how I feel about it now. “There are women more casual about their abortions than their hair color,” he writes, and recalls feminist rallies he attended back in the day at which women wore t-shirts that read, “I had an abortion!” “I had 2 abortions!” “I had 3 abortions!”
It’s possible, since Stu is so old, that his memory is faulty. I don’t remember any such jolly carnivals of fetus-killing. The women I know celebrate the fact that abortion is an option that is legally available to them and their daughters. They would never, ever celebrate having one. What a despicable assumption for Stu to make. Read more »
A complaint filed on behalf of a 20-year-old University of Pennsylvania nursing student who died by suicide in her dorm room in February 2013 blames Amazon.com for allowing the sale of the cyanide she used to kill herself.
The complaint, filed in Philadelphia’s Court of Common Pleas, also names Penn as a defendant, alleging that the university exhibited “unsympathetic, hostile and at times vindictive” behavior toward the student, Arya Singh.
In 2011, Singh, of Allentown, reported to police and to Penn officials that she had been sexually assaulted in her dorm room by a fellow student. The district attorney declined to prosecute the case; the university took steps to isolate Singh from the student she accused. The complaint states that Penn’s inquiry was delayed as a result of the school’s revision of procedures for investigating accusations of sexual assault. It further claims that Singh fell into depression and began drinking heavily as a result of her assault, leading to academic problems and student conduct offenses. Singh was placed on academic probation in January 2013 and told to vacate university housing by February 8th of that year. She was found unresponsive in her room that day and later died.
According to the complaint, Singh bought the soluble cyanide salts she used to kill herself from a Thai company through Amazon in December 2012 even though the online retailer had in place policies preventing such sales in the U.S. The suit alleges that 51 other purchases of the salts were made through Amazon, resulting in 11 deaths. Days before Singh’s death, the complaint says, Amazon revised its policies to prevent all such sales.
For confidential support if you are having thoughts of suicide, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Learn about the warning signs of suicide at the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.
By the time I graduated from college in 1978, almost every one of my women friends had had an abortion. The circumstances in each case were different, but the choice we made was the same. I’ve written before about telling my pro-life daughter about my choice years later. I did so because the climate in this country had become so profoundly anti-choice—because male legislators and activists were doing their damnedest to outlaw my decision, and were burning down clinics and murdering doctors who provided this health service—a health service, by the way, that the Supreme Court has deemed perfectly legal—to women like me.
Now here comes Pope Francis, declaring in a letter on Tuesday that the “tragedy of abortion” is “an existential and moral ordeal,” and pitying the “many women who bear in their heart the scar of this agonizing and painful decision.” He even instructed priests to offer forgiveness to women who have had abortions.
To which I say, with the utmost respect: No thanks, Your Holiness. Read more »
For all the mountains of fuss being made over Pope Francis’s impending visit, you’d think we’d never seen a holy man hereabouts. Not true! Pennsylvania was founded as a haven for heretics, so it shouldn’t be surprising that its major city has been home to some curious religious figures in its 333 (oooh, that’s half of 666!) years of history. Here are eight of the most intriguing local believers — and what they’ve believed. Read more »
Football is under siege — from parents, doctors, academics, a Kennedy, even from Buzz Bissinger, the guy who wrote the definitive book on football, Friday Night Lights. This makes us sad. Football is a wonderful game perfectly suited to the American spirit, and we’d miss it if it went away. We love us some Eagles, but for true passion — from guys who aren’t making millions a year to take the field — you can’t beat college football. Here are eight upcoming games featuring local college teams that should offer lots of rivalry, fun and excitement, not to mention cheerleaders and marching bands. Catch as many as you can — while you can. Read more »