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Exclusive: A Family's Struggle

Speaking out for the first time about their sons’ drug and legal problems, Andy and Tammy Reid reveal that addiction is an issue they’ve been dealing with since 2002.

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On January 30th, 2007, Garrett and Britt Reid, the two oldest sons of Philadelphia Eagles coach Andy Reid and his wife Tammy, were arrested in separate driving incidents. Police found drugs in the car of Garrett, 23, a student at Montgomery County Community College, after he had an accident. Britt, 21, also attending MCCC, was held on drug and weapon offenses after allegedly pointing a gun at another motorist. Thus began a media firestorm and a bizarre year for the Reids. Andy and Tammy Reid had said nothing publicly about the events until they agreed to meet with Philadelphia features editor Robert Huber for an interview. The Reids were limited in what they could discuss because of possible upcoming legal action; their lawyer, Paul Rosen, was present. But sitting in the living room of their Main Line home, the Reids spoke openly for two hours about their family’s battle with addiction.

Philadelphia magazine: First, how are Garrett and Britt doing now?

Andy Reid: They’re doing well. Obviously, they’re incarcerated at this time, but they’re working through it and handling themselves the right way, doing what they’re supposed to do at the facility here in Montgomery County. We talk to them — they can call us, we can’t call them. And we can visit them twice a week. Although one day happens to be Sunday [when the Eagles play].

PM: I’d like to go back to the day they were arrested — I think you were on the West Coast.

Andy: At the end of every season, Tam and I take a vacation, and we’ve done that for a number of years, just to kind of regroup as a couple — the seasons are long. We had taken a trip to Los Angeles, where I’m from. The third day in L.A., I got a text message from [former Eagles tight end] Chad Lewis. He said, “Our thoughts and prayers are with you.” We just thought, that’s kind of weird. A couple hours later, I got a call from my head of security that one of the boys had been in an accident. It was Garrett. We hopped on an airplane right away and came back.

PM: It emerged at Garrett’s sentencing hearing in November that he’s had issues with drugs for some time.

Andy: It’s been an ongoing struggle that we’ve dealt with, with Garrett.

PM: When did his drug use begin?

Andy: We kind of found out late, when he was actually going through the withdrawal process. He was trying to get himself off drugs — he’d been using OxyContin.

Tammy Reid: It was the summer after his freshman year at BYU, in 2002.


 

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In my prayers
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:03 AM
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Thanks to the Reids for their courage. Anyone who understands addiction can appreciate the situation. God Bless
House payment
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:25 AM
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Good luck to the Reid's and I can't wait to read the rest of the article but come on Tammy - you have a house payment - Please.
words of encourgement
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:14 AM
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You are good people and come from a strong family. Your sons are adults and have made some poor choices. Keep praying and God will answer them. Love is stronger than any addiction. Hak it is one. Your family are in my prayers. God Bless.
House payments...
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:56 AM
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yea she said she has house payments, not one but multiple, get rid of a house or 2... Listen these kids they have are not kids....their adults and need to be treated as adults...let them spend some time in jail see what that does to their addiction
Look In The Mirror
Posted by Patrick | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:06 AM
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The Reid's first approach needs to be Look In The Mirror at themselves first before they can pass on coaching's to their two son's. Andy knows this all too well, Model The Way for people including your children. Andy at times wants to take responsibility for the issues at hand.He tells his team "i need to put the players in better situations to Win", every week we hear that quote.Andy and wife need to continue Loving their son's and hope they learn from their Big mistakes. The Reid's really need to Look In The Mirror to be sure their son's are not making the same mistakes over and over again.That's defined as Insanity.
Silent Majority Unconditionally Supports the Reids
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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I've been dismayed about the vocal few in newspapers and on radio who villify Reid professionally and personally. Andy, Tammy, the overwhelming number of people and parents understand and support you without reservatin or condition. Good luck.
Drug users are.....
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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poopy faces
Everyday is a blessing
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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Everyday their sons spend in jail is a blessing. I hope when they come out of the place clean that they remain clean and see the tremendous opportunity they have. It's a second chance at life. My thoughts and prayers go out to Andy and Tammy Reid.
The Reid boys are spoiled thugs
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:47 AM
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I am disgusted by all of the Reids. His children are thugs and the parents are completely disillusioned. The rest of us make real sacrifices - and yes we also have mortgages - when our kids are in trouble. The Reid boys drove around high, with guns terrorizing residents and could have killed someone. Andy and Tammy Reid have obviously put football before their family which now they are now trying to justify. There is definitely a double standard at work here. If some kid from North Philadelphia did what the Reid's son have done their parents would be villified. Enough!
Parental Trials and Tribulations
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:08 AM
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If you have kids you feel compassion for the Reid's. As parents, its our responsibility to show our kids the right road to follow. If they stray, we pick them up and try to put them back on the right road. We keep doing this until they become adults. Adults are responsiblie for their own actions and must face the consequences of their actions. The Reid boys are now adult. It's no longer a parental responsibility. When they become adults parents can only offer their assistance - the adult choose what they want to do with their life. Unfortunately, the Reid men have chosen poorly.
Spoiled Thugs
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:19 AM
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Yes, the Reid boys are spoiled brats. Driving around in expensive cars, apparent unlimited access to money to purchase drugs, guns - what's with that? Why do two boys from the Main Line need guns. Oh, that's right, so they can go into North Philly and fit in! Absurd. They need serious jail time and rehabilitation. Not so sure the Andy and Tammy can provide the requisite rehabilitation.
House payment
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:29 AM
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Your house payment could feed my family for a year.
I agree on the neglect issue
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:24 AM
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Children learn what they live. These young men are screaming for attention from their parents. It is my greatest hope that Mr. & Mrs. Reid aren't doing too little too late. I understand how addiction takes over...it's what leads to it that may have been prevented. Feeling isolated, alone, and not connected to their family helps lead to this. If the Reids have put themselves into a position that he can't afford to take more time off to give his sons the attention they so desperately need, especially on his salary, then it is evident what their priorities were...and it doesn't sound like it was their boys.
Very sad situation
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:34 AM
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Let the Reids solve their own problems and everyone else should stay out of it. Why air their dirty laundry becuase he coaches a game? They have the money to solve it on their own. (house payment or not!)
Reflection
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:44 AM
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Anyone with children can feel empathy. I think once a child hits 18 and becomes an adult - they are adults. Unfortunately there seems to be so much entitlement in this era of child rearing. While these men have obvious addictions to overcome - they need to look inward and contribute to the society that they have taken from in the past.They could have done great things coming from such privilege. Their parents can only do so much. There is allot to be said about tough love. This is a sad situation all the way around. There are many teens with busy parents- that is no excuse for them to do drugs etc. They are living it publicly and that is unfortunate. Maybe someone can learn from this situation.
Amazing
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:39 AM
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It is amazing how ingnorant and unsympathetic some of you are. Obviously many of you have never had to deal with a friend or family member that was addicted to heroin. The Reid's story is a familiar one for those that have. Show some decency!
to the Reids
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:59 AM
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I have a son who is in recovery. It took four trys at treatment to get him into a long term recovery. Your son's can also do that. I don't know what the magic formula is, but i think it is different for everyone. But i do that the only way to stay in recovery is to have the support of other recovering addicts. Good luck to you and you are in my prayers. Scott
God Bless the Reid's
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:09 AM
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I cannot believe how many unsypathetic people there are out there. "There but for the Grace of God go I". You had better hope it never happens to you and his job pays him alot of money. So What! They are still parents and how dare some of you presume that they didn't try to help sooner!!!
Class
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:09 AM
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You should walk in someones shoes before you judge them. It's clear the Reids have dealt with this for some time under enormous pressure in their public life. Through it all he has remained professional in his position and to the public - especially so after everything has become public. Not many people could demonstrate such class under these conditions. The Eagles are so lucky to have Andy Reid. And for the judge and his comments - well certainly a classless display of power just because he could. It must be nice to be so perfect.
Baloney
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:25 AM
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As a father, I absolutely know that luck plays a role in raising children. However, if it was all luck, then 50% of children would go astray which is not the case. The Reids are 0-2 with their oldest 2 children and not with petty pranks. These are baddd people who are fortunate they did not murder someone. The Reids have not been model parents and I am very glad they were not my parents. I would trade my lower-middle class upbringing anyday for theirs. In closing, I went to the Eagles away game in Minnesota. On the flight home, I sat next to someone involved with the Vikings management. She said she was in a suite and was so happy to see Tammy there. I turned to her and said without flinching, "That is why the Reid kids are screwed up. She has 3 vulnerable children at home and flies to Minnesota for an Eagles game." I don't want to hear all of the bleeding hearts out there. They needed to be more involved and how about saying "no" more often rather than sprinkling t
Reid Family
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:51 AM
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I group up in a home that was plagued by addiction. This disease is so incredibly insidious...it knows no economic boundaries. I know that the Reid family is one of tremendous faith. At this most special time of year I wish you peace.
Reality is...
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 11:01 AM
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Can you say enabler.
To The Reids
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 11:01 AM
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You have shown unmatched dignity by not commenting on your family's personal life until now. You owe no one an explanation... To the public: Do not judge until you have walked in another person's shoes.
Hang in there Reids, some of you folks are petty and ignorant
Posted by denise | Dec. 21, 2007 at 11:31 AM
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Yes, the Reids have a mortgage that wiould feed many families, and he makes a lot more money than most people, that's not the point, morons. Where did it say he should make a decent salary. Are all of you so damm judgemental, ignorant or just jealous of their financial sucess that you feel justified in your comments. In case some of you don't realize rehab is EXPENSIVE and health insurance if you have it covers only a portion of it. So while the Reids are blessed to have a financial cushion that most people don't have, as parents their heatbreak is the same. It spans race and socioeconomic class. Tammy is correct in saying you wouldnt ask anyone else if they were giving up their jobs to monitor grown men. Yes they are gorwn men, but agaion anyone who has children realizes that their is still a lot of child left in some of our kids at 22 and 24. That's not to say they are not accountable for their actions. As, a black woman I feel race iw not an issue here, although I think they
House payments?
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 11:37 AM
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Come on, the Reids bought their house in 2001 for just over $1 million. He makes a reporterd $4.2 million a year, if they still have house payments she must be blowing the money one drugs too. Should have just kept their mouths shut...she looks like more of an idiot now.
Sanctimonious comments
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 11:58 AM
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I really resent the comments from people who blame the parents, in spite of knowing nothing about the situation. And the questions about Andy Reid continuing in his job. Get over yourselves. The correct response is prayer and compassion. Always.
House payments
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:08 PM
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Perhaps they're struggling like so many families with the mortgage crisis - they must have an ARM on that $1 million home.
Lucky?
Posted by scot | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:23 PM
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OK...Reads like a "warm and fuzzy" piece to me. Tammy, you have a house payment, and you also have the media to taint a jury pool...how nice!
Jealousy is an ugly trait
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:17 PM
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Reading through several of the comments, I was astonished and embarrassed by people continuing to use this situation to take a shot at the Reids. You are simply jealous. Instead of taking shots at a family that's in a tough spot, try spending your time improving your own. I guarantee every family has an area they can improve on. Merry Christmas.
Helpful to Others
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:12 PM
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Wow! I, for one, am grateful the Reids decided to tell their story. Rather than criticizing each little statement, let's take time to look at the whole picture. Maybe their family's experiences will help us help others who may also be struggling with this type of difficulty. I'll be rooting for the Reid's to one day have a healthy and happy family.
Sympathies
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:28 PM
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I'm appalled at some of the critical comments directed towards the Reid's. Throw out the "house payment" comment because your millionares 10x over. Psssssh. But, these are two people who are genuinely concerned for the well being of their children. Furthermore, because of this families financial situation I'm certain they have done everything to try and help their children regardless of the cost. Consider that many of use would even have the resources to assist people in our families that want to get clean and stop using drugs. Ultimately, you can't help an addict who doesn't want to help themselves. Hopefully, they both can remain sober upon discharge from prison. Best of luck to the Reid's and their children. GO BEARS!!!
Where were Andy & Tammy?
Posted by B | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:43 PM
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We know that Andy and Tammy were out of town when the 2 boys were arrested. A few questions: If you knew that your son(s) had drug problems why would you go out of town? Where the boys responsible for your 3 other children when you were away?
Been there.......
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 12:43 PM
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No amount of money makes it any easier when something goes wrong with your child. After 10 years of drug use, my son has been meth free for 1 year. I am so proud of him and thankful that I have my son back. My heart goes out to this family.
Everybody's Problem
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 1:24 PM
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Drug addiction is everybody's problem. It knows no social, educational, or financial boundaries. These parents are brave enough to tell their story. God bless them and their family.
Recovery
Posted by Doc | Dec. 21, 2007 at 1:26 PM
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I applaud the Reids's courage in being open about their families addiction. They have taken the first step in surrendering to their addiction and admitting they are powerless. I am in recovery and work as a Clinical Director for a Treatment facility. My experience is that most families are in denial. Recovery for a family takes work. Everyone might start attending meetings to begin building a foundation for their recovery. It is important that boundaries be clearly set and that the Reid's let their sons know that the game is over. I would also suggest that the boys find a treatment center to enter once they leave prison and a sober living environment they can go to once they have compelted treatment. Remember it is a journey and not a destination. Pay attention to the lessons you are teaching one another. Sincerely, Dr. Martin Pennington
Unsolicited advice
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 1:55 PM
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Do not let those boys live in your house again until you rid it of guns, prescription drugs and whatever else they can get into. Do not let them drive your cars. If necessary put protectors on the outlets so that they don't stick their forks in them.
Those of you....
Posted by tim | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:08 PM
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who think a few days in jail is going to cure an addiction like this obviously know nothing about it! It's the LAST thing an addict needs. I used to think the same thing, "oh, just quit" like it was easy. A 7 year addiction to Oxy's cured me of that thinking! Clean two years now because I'd finally reached MY bottom. That's what needs to happen to any addict.
Reid input?
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:15 PM
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Philly Mag allowed Reid's input and suggestions? Pardon me, that is not journalism. It is now part of the Eagle promo machine. Don't call it journalism unless it really is.
Those of you.....(continued)
Posted by tim | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:18 PM
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Being addicted, truly addicted, means that drug is THE most important thing in the world to you, nothing else matters; friends, family, career all come in a distant 2nd, 3rd and 4th. They can kick him out, like one person suggested, but it won't matter... he'll still have his drugs. And with those drugs, everything will be alright in his head. Jail? All you'll get from that is more contacts to get more drugs when you get out. Flood them with love! how about trying THAT one! I know for me, had I not had this one man who stood by my side, and I wasn't even his son, and showed me true compassion, for the first time in my life, I'd never have made it off them. This kid needs the same thing... to know his parents are there no matter what, unconditionally. Not enabling them anymore doesn't mean you have to stop loving them, throw them out like your love comes with conditions! Good luck to them all.
Those of you.....(continued)
Posted by tim | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:18 PM
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Being addicted, truly addicted, means that drug is THE most important thing in the world to you, nothing else matters; friends, family, career all come in a distant 2nd, 3rd and 4th. They can kick him out, like one person suggested, but it won't matter... he'll still have his drugs. And with those drugs, everything will be alright in his head. Jail? All you'll get from that is more contacts to get more drugs when you get out. Flood them with love! how about trying THAT one! I know for me, had I not had this one man who stood by my side, and I wasn't even his son, and showed me true compassion, for the first time in my life, I'd never have made it off them. This kid needs the same thing... to know his parents are there no matter what, unconditionally. Not enabling them anymore doesn't mean you have to stop loving them, throw them out like your love comes with conditions! Good luck to them all.
Are You Serious?
Posted by Harry | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:18 PM
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I feel bad for the young men getting addicted to drugs and having to suffer through the ordeal of haveing to quit, but this is not an ordinay family or an ordinary situation. This is a multi-million dollar NFL head coach working 18 to 20 hours a day 7 days a week. There was no time for family life. Sadly this is a case of no parental involvement.
You have no idea...
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:15 PM
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It's easy to point fingers when we get to post as "anonymous." Anyone who judges the reads has no clue about being a parent. I was a good kid, and the crap I pulled on my parents is unbelieveable. Why? A) Because they trusted me and B) They worked and weren't home all the time watching me like a hawk. Now imagine if for my whole life my father was an NFL coach; 6 months of the year on the road. And as far as people being upset about Tammy's comment on the house payment, don't be stupid and make it about you. The gist of her comment is that no one would ask any other type of professional to leave their job because of their sons' behavior. Andy took the team to a Super Bowl 2 years AFTER this started, so he's doing a great job. And people live to the life style they're accustomed to. If you don't like how much money he's making, sorry, however if you all of the sudden lost that money, how would you pay your bills? No matter what level of income you're talking, you couldn't.
Recovery Failure Is Like Business Failure
Posted by Nuc | Dec. 21, 2007 at 2:20 PM
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There seem to be a lot of people who would condemn Andy and Tammy and their sons. If we were talking about starting a new business, a high failure rate would be GUARANTEED. Same thing with recovery. It takes time. It takes repetition. It takes guts. It takes work. It takes money. I'm lucky. My loved ones haven't killed themselves or anyone else, yet. Most of them have found sobriety. I don't love the sober ones more than the users.
Too Much Privilege
Posted by Rock | Dec. 21, 2007 at 3:09 PM
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These people have too much $ and not enough therapy. Andy is an absentee parent and Tammy looks like she needs a random drug screen herself. Maybe they should wait for Lynne Spears' parenting book for tips on how to handle these overprivilged bubbas.If those boys were black or poor they would be doing some serious time. Time for this family to get reality and counseling and KICK THOSE BUMS OUT OF THE HOUSE! Lets see how much drugs they can afford working at McDonald's. Tough love for the Reid Retards.
Hang in there is all you can do.
Posted by Jerry | Dec. 21, 2007 at 3:09 PM
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There are some that stand back and say Andy & Tammy Reid have given the boys too much and they have been easy on them. It's easy to stand back and be an armchair quarterback. It could very well be one of us in the Reid's situation and we can thank God it isn't but pray for those that have to go through something like this. You know it's very easy to throw someone on the junk heap of life but it takes those with a strong character to stand and battle it out. I pray that the Reid's will be able to stand back one day and say, Look where we made it from. For the rest of us. Take heed in where we stand, less we fall.
I agree...
Posted by Saul | Dec. 21, 2007 at 3:45 PM
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Drug users are poopy faces.
Best of luck to the Reids
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 4:16 PM
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As a parent I cannot imagine the feeling of having to face an issue like this. Good luck to the entire Reid family.
self esteem
Posted by mary ann | Dec. 21, 2007 at 4:26 PM
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As a parent it is difficult not to blame yourself when your children make bad choices. You wonder what you could have done differently to prevent such heartache. Well, after a certain age, just as we cannot accept credit for the accomplishments our children achieve, we cannot accept all the blame for their mistakes, they are independent beings and only have influence on them for a short period of time. These two young men, for the short time they have been on this planet, are not defined by the mistakes they have been made, they are more than that. They need to have their self esteem reinforced. When one recognizes their own self worth, they are capable of making healthy intelligent choices as regards themselves and their fellow beings. I hope these young men can be saved and realize they are more than the sum of their mistakes. As for Mr. and Mrs. Reid, the focus should be on the future and what can be done to help their sons realized their worth and know that there are many pa
facing reality
Posted by jim | Dec. 21, 2007 at 4:05 PM
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I am at a loss here that no one seems to grasp the reality...these are two young men,not boys! They should be out on their own working,earning a living. Not at home living off of mom and dad.AND drug use is a choice you conciously choose to do them, no one is twisting your arm and making U take them I worked in mental health/and drug and alcohol treatment for 35 years. Give me two hours a week for five weeks with them and I gaurantee I would get through to them. The family dynamics here is a contributing factor, but it can be fixed. All of the publicity and public airing of their problems will not solve the problems. Individual and group therapy is the answer. I wish them well and hope they get the correct help they ALL need.
Support
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 6:03 PM
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I am shocked at the negative comments posted regarding this article. First, read the article in it's entire format before placing judgement. I have no children, but many Godchildren, and I still feel their pain. Social stature has nothing to do with the matters at hand. Tammy Reid is also a wife and as a result should suppot her husband. They have a lot of children. What mistakes two adult children make should not define them as parents. The two children were ADULTS. As parents of multiple children, you hope that one day you can move move older children to younger children. They are good parents. The choices your children make as adults, should not reflect the 20-24 years you took in raisng them. I applaud the Reids in their very public display in this magazine. Many people would have hidden under a rock until everything passed. God bless them and their family during this difficult time.
The guy above me
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 6:19 PM
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seems like you really know your stuff, like the 100 other counsleors I met. " You " only need 2 hours because you are so much better than everyone else at this. Selfishness and Self centered ness is the root of our troubles. Pick up the Big Book its in there homo
A better understanding of addiction
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 6:09 PM
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My heart goes out to the Reid family. I understand what it is like to live with an addict because I do, and have been for almost three years. Believe me, the guilt a parent suffers is overwhelming. You try everything you possibly can to stop them, but the drugs are so overpowering that addicts lose all of their emotions and any sense of guilt that was instilled in them while they were growing up. To all of you nay-sayers, I implore you to understand the financial devastation drug addiction has on a family. Rehab is prohibitively expensive and most insurance plans only pay for the first month...Just enough time, maybe, to detox. Forget the intensive therapy that is needed. Plus, one time in rehab may not be enough. The addict has to want to quit and fight the demons that compel them to abuse. People need to be educated on addiction and understand that it is a disease and not always a choice. There is often time a co-existing mental health condition. Addicts usually abuse because
The Reid Men
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 6:14 PM
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I cna't even imagine how awfuol it must be to be so addicted to drugs. I think both men should be court adjuduicated to a major rehab center and after that to a half-way house for at least a year. They're driver's license's should be revoked for at least 2 years. Tough love and being kept away from people, places and ings that enabled their addictions is the only chance they have. If they go back to the same environment they came from they'll be right back into the drugs. Tammy and Andy I pray for the recovery of these two men. Remember, they are men not boys.
Missing punt re-turner
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:08 PM
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no mention why Greg Lewis was returning punts against Green Bay. That is the question I wanted asked.
Their side
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:18 PM
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Instead of worrying about the mortgage payment on a house in which they could pay off tomorrow, did they ever (I mean, ever) think about hiring a security person for their house to make sure it was clean and protect their other children? It is clear that Andy Reid has put his job ahead of his family. No matter how bad it gets, he will keep on being a NFL coach because wifey needs her trophies like the big house and the expensive lifestyle. They won ZERO brownie points from this person.
610WIP is responsible for all the mudslinging about Andy Reid
Posted by Tyrese | Dec. 21, 2007 at 7:50 PM
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I wish the Reid's all the best. The pounding they've been taking from the no-nothings about sports Angelo Cataldi and Rhea Hughes on 610WIP radio has been disgusting. To try and boost their ratings they slung mud at the coach and his wife every day for weeks. Any ill feeling towards Andy Reid and his wife Tammy has been perpetuated by WIP just to increase their ratings and to besmirch the reputations of Andy and Tammy. As long as they can increase their ratings they will say anything about anyone without any regard for fairness or accuracy. To listen to Rhea Hughes talk about sports is a joke as she doesn't know a damn thing and it shows every day.
House payments!!?? Need to hold down a job??!!
Posted by Jim | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:02 PM
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What kind of house do you need to raise a good child?? That kind of message from a parent to any aged child is a sure way to let the child know that they don't come first...and it's obvious that dear mom Tammy had her selfish priorities mixed up long ago and now they're trying to appear as if they care about what happens by going public. With the kind of house(s) they own and the money they have in the bank they can afford to retire, sell down and focus on showing their sons they love them and will do anything to parent them in a loving way. Capable of doing that in today's America? Doubtful, but if they did THAT would be a story to put on the cover of this mag and sports pages!
WIP and Andy Reid
Posted by Frank | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:02 PM
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I agree with the person who spoke about WIP. Rhea Hughes once had her own show on the station but it was so obvious she didn't know what she was talking about that they replaced her with male hosts who understood sports. They relegated her back to the morning show so instead of talking about sports which she cannot do without making people laugh, she spends her time criticizing Andy Reid and his wife. Since she doesn't understand enough to comment on how he's coaching his football team she instead berates him as a father - which she also knows nothing about because she has no children. God Bless Andy and Tammy and let's pray for them.
Thanks to the Reids
Posted by Jon | Dec. 21, 2007 at 8:02 PM
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I want to thank the Reids for being so candid in their article. I am a huge Andy Reid supporter, and once again he shows the world his inner strength. He is one of the best coaches in the NFL and after reading some of his comments I have realized he's even a better person. God bless him and his family during these tough times. I wish them all a Merry Christmas and many blessings for the New Year!
miracles happen when god wants to remain annonymous
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:01 PM
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I was at a 12 step b'day meeting for a young man who was celebrating a year of sobriety and he sais that he had sent a thank you card to the officer who arrested him and put him in jail...that gave him time to think of what was happening to his life... the same might happen here after rheir time is up....I think that's where the miracle is...
haters
Posted by Paul | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:07 PM
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the people who write bad things about the reids are clearly jealous. To be critical of the parents and acting like they know whether or not they spent enough time with the kids show how small minded they really are. the reids are good people, they are not perfect. all of you who criticize them better look in the mirror first, I bet your lives are not perfect either. drugs own the people they victimize....black or white....rich or poor.
God Bless us all
Posted by Mary Ellen | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:25 PM
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I believe it takes incredible courage and strength to speak to the media about such a private, personal family crisis. My heart goes out to the Reids. I pray they find peace and serenity amid the insanity of addiction. And to those who can offer only verbal attacks to this family - I pray you never have to experience a loved one's addiction. No one ever chooses to become an addict. And until you walk in those shoes......... Merry Christmas to the Reid's - and thank you for helping so many other families who also struggle with addiction. Your motives are commendable.
unbelievable
Posted by dom | Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:39 PM
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im a 22yr old addict the parents are not to blame at all. when i was growing up my parents were always there for me whether it was sports or school(i had a 3.4 gpa went to college)i was always able to talk to them about everything. my friends around me were always good people also. one day though at work my boss/owner said come in to his office so i did he told me that i had seemed down and that doing this would make me feel better so thats when i did my first line. he was right i did feel better not knowing what it was going to lead to. an addiction does not happen in one day for me it took a year for it to get bad at the same time my parents never knew that i was doing it and NO you can not tell if you have no idea what to look for. after i while it got expensive spending 2-3hundred a day so i went to crack which was cheaper but that is when shit hit the floor i wouldnt come home or call nothing that i had done in the past
Professional Sports Equals Alcohol/Drugs/Sex/ Money
Posted by B | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:25 PM
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The NFL and most other professional sports are nothing short of drug pushers and have become symbols of America's decline in morality. Selling beer...dealing crack not much difference when it comes to addiction. Except that alcohol kills more people, and can get TV ad time during the SuperBowl.
continue
Posted by DOM | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:37 PM
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I knew then i had a problem. i asked them for help and went to rehab. i was clean a 1.5yr and just recently relapsed i still have not determinded why i went back but anyways there is no reason to blame the parents at all. the first time is a conscious decision but after that first one your brain is altered in a way to always to feel the way you did from the first time. i was not one of those spoiled kids i paided for my car, insurance, credit card, ive worked since i was 15 that may not sound like anything to some of you but where im from the parents paid for everything and to those who say the kids shouldnt be living at home just so you know times have changed and kids in the tri state area dont usually move out of their house till they finish college(21-22if they finish on time) and get a good job. We can not make it financially otherwise those of you who live in central states cant comprehend that 20-30k a yr is not enough to live on by yourself
lastly
Posted by dom | Dec. 21, 2007 at 10:51 PM
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In conclusion addicts will always be addicts and there is nothing anyone can do for them. We must do it for ourselves, once we believe that the we are powerless over the drug it is then when we can start understanding treatment and doing the program(12 steps for those that dont know.) sorry if this didnt really apply but to me it did and had to get it out so thanks for letting me share
very funny!
Posted by season ticket | Dec. 22, 2007 at 4:30 AM
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I love the point about Greg Lewis retuning punts againt Green Bay and yes why was that not asked? Too funny!!
Leave them alone now
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 22, 2007 at 4:58 AM
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I hope and pray for the Reid family to have peace. I hope for their two sons in trouble to find the strength to do the right thing and live the life they should have been living and I hope for their other children that aren't in trouble to find some sort of normalcy and to pull through this without any residual effects. God bless them.
Say What?
Posted by jack | Dec. 22, 2007 at 7:38 AM
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Could the Reid's have been better parents? Would it have prevented drug abuse if Tammy had stayed at home rather than go to away games? Do the people who heap criticizm on the Reids live in a vacuum? EVERY FAMILY IN AMERICA is dealing with some issue. And those issues go from minor to mayhem. Truth be told, our children (and their parents) will be better informed and perhaps better able to cope thanks to the Reid's and any other family willing to express their story. Remember too, it's not over. The struggle those young men and the Reid family are faced with is life long. God's Blessings upon them all. I would enjoy reading a year from now the success they have enjoyed in winning over with the addiction. Hang in there!
Thank you Andy and Tammy
Posted by Tamika | Dec. 22, 2007 at 10:21 AM
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Thank you Andy and Tammy for opening up your home and your hearts to everyone and sharing your story. I wish you and your entire family all the best that life has to offer. It is quite sad that those who disparaged you daily on WIP radio's morning show and assaulted your character are now accusing Philadelphia Magazine of allowing you to edit and control what they printed. The same people who dissed you everyday are now so angry that you chose to share your story with someone else besides their radio show that they are now doing everything they can to belittle and disparage your coming forward with this magazine. May God Bless the Reid family.
House payments?????
Posted by Jim | Dec. 22, 2007 at 11:01 AM
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Tammy, Tammy, please give us "great unwashed" a break. Andy has been a head coach in the NFL for 9 years, something like 15 years coaching in the NFL and you are worried about house payments? I won't even mention the Executive VP of Football Operations for the Eagles! He needs a job? Sorry but you lost my sympathy with that aside. Try living on $40,000 (or less) and give us a break!!
Andy & Tammy Reid
Posted by kenneth | Dec. 22, 2007 at 12:27 PM
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God bless Andy & Tammy. Although very difficult to ignore, try to ignore the idiotic, comments of a few uninformed, judgemental morons that follow the Eagles. I love the Eagles, always have, always will. I appreciate what you've done with the team, but most of all, I admire the way you are ealig with your personal struggle. Some of these jealous people would be losers even if they made a lot of money.
God Bless Andy and Tammy
Posted by Anthony | Dec. 22, 2007 at 1:47 PM
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The attack dogs of WIP radio are lambasting the Reids for telling their story to the Philadelphia Magazine instead of WIP. The Reids should be applauded for opening up to Philly Magazine because the reporter who interviewed them is an honest man and is not out to make headlines by attacking the Reid's as the radio station does every day. WIP is the source of the all the polarization and negativity people in our city are force fed with every day on the airwaves, be it against the Reid's or fanning the flames of racism in sports. Kudos to the Reids for going to the right media outlet to tell their story where they can open their hearts to our community without being castigated and having their integrity and life destroyed by ratings starved radio entertainers.
Analyze This
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 22, 2007 at 3:50 PM
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Andy and Tammy Reid's sons can be forgiven and understood for their addiction and the struggles to overcome addiction. Wht bother me is the choice of a drug dealing, thug living lifestyle whee carrying a gun and waving it in someone's face in a threatening and intimidating manner is unacceptable in any coail setting. Despite stereotypes and false imprresions, its not acceptable in N. Philly. And although drug use renders drug abusers in a a mind/mood altering sense where poor deciosions are ususally to follow the drug abuse, responsibility for those decisions are real. The Reid sons like many others in prison for the same infractions should be treated no differently. Bringing drugs into the prison and continuing that lifestyle are all characteristics of anti-social/criminal thinking behaviors where authority for the law is secondary to one's needs. Where were Andy and Tammy when all of these things were developing-at Eagles traing and practice and shopping as she reminded us of An
We are praying for you
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 22, 2007 at 2:41 PM
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As someone who has a history of this in the family and have been living with it for a year with a close realtive - I pray for the Reid's and most importantly their sons to want recovery - Wait for the full article and in the meantime go watch the entire HBO addiction seriers to educate yourself befor your blame the parents. Merry Christmas and take a minute each day to pary it does not happen to you or a loved one and that those suffering get the help and support they need.
Glass Houses
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 22, 2007 at 5:23 PM
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As I have watched this past year for the Reids, I am glad that when my son chose to use drugs, our experiences did not make the news! I was never asked to resign from my teaching position because of my son's choices. We simply do not have a right to castigate a family because none of us truly knows how the Reids made their choices. Their income, their abilities, their family dynamics are all personal things and do not deserve public speculation as to how all of their experiences took them to their present situation. Quite simply, the Reids deserve to work through their problems out of the public’s eye. I send prayers their way and hope they can find peace as they continue on the path before them.
Very Difficult
Posted by jim | Dec. 22, 2007 at 5:51 PM
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As a CEO of a substance abuse non profit program with a son who is dealing with addiction I encourage you and your wife to be positive and encouraging. Also, do not hesitate to challenge the "system" since most do not understand addiction and simply want to punish. Good luck and keep the faith.
Be kind, be gentle
Posted by Christine | Dec. 22, 2007 at 7:42 PM
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I wish the Reids a Merry Christmas and a Better New Year. Life is not a destination, it is a journey. We are all on the journey of life. Some of us take different paths. Who judges us so harshly when we march to our own drummer or when we choose wrong? Thank goodness that most of us have the support from Family, Friends, and God. I'll be praying for the Reid Family and not judging them this year. We would all be well at this Christmas to: Mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Write a nice letter. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in word and deed. Keep a promise. Forgo a grudge. Forgive an enemy. Apologize. Try to understand. Examine your demands on others. Think first of someone else. Be kind. Be gentle. Laugh a little more. Express your gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth. S
Be kind
Posted by Christine | Dec. 22, 2007 at 8:18 PM
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Life is not a destination, it is a journey. Who is judging us as we take the wrong path on our journey? I will be praying for the Reid family and not judging them this year. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes. We would be well this Christmas to remember to: Mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Write a nice letter of encouragement and love. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in word and deed. Keep a promise. Forgo a grudge. Forgive an enemy. Apologize. Try to understand. Examine your demands on others. Think first of someone else. Be kind. Be gentle. Laugh a little more. Express your gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth. Speak love and then speak it again. May God bless the Reid Family and many, many others who are struggling with the challenges of life.
Don't give up, Andy and Tammy!
Posted by Kay | Dec. 22, 2007 at 8:32 PM
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Just read about you in our local paper here on the west coast.... You're right! You're not the only ones dealing with a child's poor choices. My husband (a pastor) and I (now a school teacher after staying home with my children) did everything we could to prevent drug abuse...and one of our three children got involved in drugs which led to problems with the law. We gave "tough love" when needed, but were always there to help. We thought he was pulling through, but he passed away last year due to health problems he developed. We miss him terribly, especially during this Christmas season! May our Lord protect you and your sons as you keep on loving them through this hard time. (By the way...yes, others like us have had dad's job questioned!!)
My prayers are with the Reids
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 22, 2007 at 9:33 PM
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We have experienced problems with our son and I know what the Reids are going through, it is a heartbreaking situation. My son has been in rehab 4 times and experienced legal problems and it is the most difficult time you can experience as a parent. I moved from Philly a few years back and my sons problems started here so I also know what its like to be away from home in this situation. May God Bless the family and we will pray for them all.
We can relate
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 23, 2007 at 10:32 AM
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What do we do to fight this epidemic consuming our youth? Our daughter, 22, was an "A" student all her life, graduate high school with a 4.17GPA. Now drugs have taken her away and we don't know who she is anymore. She is self destructive & hates us. I think she hates herself more. We too have rescued her only to have her regroup and steal our car to leave. At first we blame ourselves and wonder where did we go wrong? Nowhere. I pray every day, but will not be manipulated by the tears anymore.
Andy Reid
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 24, 2007 at 6:52 AM
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What do you want Andy Reid to do once he quits his job as head coach, sells his home and possesions? Are he and his wife to follow these men around to make sure they refrain from using? Andy Reid's employment has nothing do do with his son's drug use and quitting his job will have NO impact on his son's recovery.
Facts vs Judgement
Posted by Hollow | Dec. 24, 2007 at 9:21 AM
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Why is it called judgement when you are only stating the FACTS!!! Judgement would be saying that the Reids will never be able to be great parents. I hope no one is suggesting that. Yes, they have fallen short, but we all fall short and need GODs mercy and grace. No one is perfect. Fact: a truth known by actual experience or observation; something known to be true. Judgement: an objectively formed opinion.
Thanks Christine Bennett
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 24, 2007 at 11:20 AM
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...and all others who have responded to this issue with sanity rather than judgement. 15 years ago, I found myself caught up in the web of despair that is addiction. I was older than the Reid boys are now and am not a person of wealth. I was truly blessed that one experience with rehab was enough to have set me on the path to recovery that is now 10 years long. I COULD not...WOULD not have done it though without the love, encouragement, support of my mother who NEVER EVER gave up on me. Love your kids, Reids. NEVER give up on them.
WE LOVE YOU
Posted by Tidwell | Dec. 26, 2007 at 7:07 AM
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Hey Andy and Tammy, you've always been in our thoughts and prayers through your whole ordeal. You know we Tidwell's will always have an unconditional love for you. Draw strengh from Him and He will pull you through.
Philadelphia country Club?
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 26, 2007 at 8:44 AM
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Maybe if Tammy spent a little less time at the club and more time ... FACE TIME with her kids she could have had a tighter reign on them.
Throwing stones
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 26, 2007 at 8:35 AM
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To all the people who sit here and judge the Reids because they have more than one mortage payment or because there kids are spoiled. Does it really matter? What right do you have to judge anyone let alone someone who has not 1 but 2 sons in jail because of their addictions. If you knew anything about addictions it takes on the whole family. It doesn't matter who they are or how much money they make, they are human too. So let it go and let them find some peace.
We need to use EFFECTIVE drug prevention programs
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 26, 2007 at 9:36 AM
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It is easy to blame the parents because then we do not have to examine ourselves, as a society. Too many schools and communities select drug prevention programs based on political pressure (DARE), personal philosophy (scared straight), and popularity (prison). Experts know that these do not work and often make the problem worse by displacing effective programs. The National Institute on Drug Abuse HAS identified programs that work, such as mentoring, life skills training, Project Towards No Drug Abuse, and Reconnecting Youth ("Red Book"). We need to start giving kids REAL FACTS about drugs instead of dazzling them with a gun toting cop in the classroom.
Thank you!
Posted by Maria | Dec. 26, 2007 at 1:36 PM
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Thank you to Andy and Tammy Reid for telling what it is like to live and deal with addiction! When people were saying Andy Reid should step down; I kept saying no he should not. If anyone elses child has a drug problem; are they expected to quit their job. I wish them so much luck and my prayers are with the Reid family. Addiction is a scary thing for everyone involved!
response to denise watkins
Posted by jay | Dec. 26, 2007 at 3:09 PM
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LEARN TO SPELL BEFORE COMMENTING ON A PUBLIC SITE. Mortgage payment, sell one or two of the houses they own. Then they can be home like a family rather then in different house in different states. How about getting a job that pays Tammy, instead of shopping and flying around the country. There are 3 younger kids home, who is mining the shop while Andy and Tammy are away half the year? Kids do make mistakes, but parents continue that mistake by making accuses.
Do The Right Thing
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 26, 2007 at 6:24 PM
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Its not fair that Andy should have to stop working to help his kids but he should. Look at other coaches, Dungy's son killed himself. Coaching hours need to be changed by the NFL. Guns and drugs means they are out of control, family should always come first and sometimes you cant leave your job cause you have the rest of the family to take care of too. not the case here. I think Andy needs to leave the eagles because he can afford to do it and take care of whats important. no need to be cruel to Andy and his wife but lets face it. he has the means to do whats right, most people dont!!!! Take a leave Andy and I think things will get better faster for your kids and your family. Your a good coach and I am sure you would be welcome back in Philly out of respect for you doing the right thing. as good as you are at your job I dont want you coaching the Eagles right now and I am loosing respect for you as a person not as a coach. I wish you the best
To the Andy and Tammy
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 27, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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Thank you for sharing. Our 22 year old son is again in "recovery" and we know all too well and share the indescribable heartache that comes with watching and trying to help your child find their way out of this MONSTER of addiction. We cant imagine having to go thru this pain under the scrutiny of the public eye.....I am so sorry that your ordeal had to become so public. That only adds to the difficulty. Shrug off the ignornant comments from those who want to judge you or are jealous of your success.....for your NEVER know what is around YOUR corner. And Pain is PAIN whether you make $4 and hour or $4 million. I wish you the best and most of all I wish you serenity and peace in your hearts.
There is a solution
Posted by Kelly | Dec. 27, 2007 at 9:56 AM
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It might seem like things are impossible but to reality of it all is this. Once you can admit that there is a problem then you can learn how to work for a solution. I thought that for many years I was going to live the addictive way and once I learned that drugs and alcohol weren't my problem that I was my problem life started to get better. I went through the 12 steps and today I am member of society. I just want the Reid's to know that there is hope out there. It didn't matter who you were or where you live, Everything happened for a reason. Many years down the road you will come to realize that you expriences are the things that make you you. I pray that one day you sons may find peace in there hearts and happiness in their eyes. MAY GOD BLESS YOU
Sorry-ass Reids
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 27, 2007 at 11:10 AM
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If you don't have time for children....don't have them. Do the world a favor.
pathetic
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 27, 2007 at 11:43 AM
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pathetic family and oh so obvious publicity stunt. oh my heart bleeds for millionaires who let others raise their kids. if the reids were struggling, i would have had a lot more respect had they come clean earlier
Take a look at this picture
Posted by Linda | Dec. 27, 2007 at 1:48 PM
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In November, the Philadelphia Inquirer published an oped essay I wrote about my own son's battle with meth addiction. To write about this kind of experience requires a fine edge of honesty and a willingness to be vulnerable. When my essay was published I feared readers would wag their fingers and say I should/shouldn't have done this or that. But people have been supportive in general, and I'm thankful. Some have blasted the Reids with the same accusations I was afraid I'd receive for speaking out, but many comments seem more about social status than how to deal with a problem. I'm a working class citizen, not opulent by any means, but my heart goes out to the Reids. They have suffered over their children, we have that much in common. Look past the differences in wealth and take a look at the face of addiction--what was once a beautiful son or daughter is now held hostage by drugs that can make users steal from their own loved ones, ravage their bodies and minds and even cut life short
sympathy
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 27, 2007 at 1:02 PM
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The Reids are doing as much as they can to help their sons and it is coming from their hearts. Let some of these nasty people who have unkind words for them live in their shoes. This happens to the best of families. It is not something you have compelete control over. You talk about their way of life because deep down you would love to have what they worked for. Andy and Tammy you are in our prayers and I hope everything turns around for the boys sooner that you can realize. You are truly a caring family. Those people who have nasty things to say are nasty people who have no consideration for anyone.
Not about love
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 27, 2007 at 10:45 PM
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Those of you that think you know that just because they had demanding jobs is the reason their sons became addicts have no idea! My daughter is a heroin addict and has been for 3 years now from the time she left high school in 2005. During her childhood she was loved, cared for, blessed with a big family that did everything together. Very popular in school, in band, colorguard, show choir, Spanish club,graduated with a 3.8, accepted into several big universities, numerous community services projects. Loved I think so. We both worked, my husband is the President of his fathers moving company. Not being loved and cared for has nothing to do with them being addicts and those of you that think that, think again. Walk in the parents of an addicts shoes for a day or two.
andy reid article
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 28, 2007 at 4:11 AM
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My daughter is a drug and alcohol counselor, so I can emphatize with the family. There was just one thing about the article that bothered me...well, maybe two. When Tammy Reid said the younger son did not hurt anyone physically....who knows what pain and trauma the woman he pulled the gun on is going through? Tammy's comment seemed so cavalier, or perhaps it was taken out of context. But, she seemed to gloss over the younger son's problems, and the comment about him not physically hurting anyone, just made me wonder...did she ever contact the woman he threatened with a gun and speak to the woman? Perhaps she did, but I think that would go a long way towards healing. That said, I do believe bad things happen to good people and I pray that their sons can put their lives together and live happy, productive lives.
Get a better job !!!!
Posted by Bob | Dec. 28, 2007 at 7:12 AM
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Some anonymous poster wrote the following: "House payment Dec. 21, 2007 at 9:29 AM Posted by Anonymous Your house payment could feed my family for a year." WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH THE PRICE OF TEA? GET A BETTER JOB. WHAT WAS THE POINT OF THIS SILLY AS$ POST?
The Reid Family
Posted by Cheryl | Dec. 30, 2007 at 3:00 AM
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This was a very meaningful article for me, the mom of two young men. I always pray for God's protection over my two children. My prayers are also with the Reid family now. I am believing that Garrett and Britt will find hope, healing, and a happy future. It must be very difficult to have your personal, private pain made so public.
You have my support
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 30, 2007 at 9:41 AM
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Tammy and Andy, I am sorry that you are going through all this with your boys. I pray that 2008 will be a year of recovery for your family. Those who are so judgemental need some humility and compassion. I wish you all the best. God bless your family.
know your pain
Posted by sandra | Dec. 30, 2007 at 1:38 PM
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We too, have been going through all of the same things - for the last 12 years, our family has suffered with drug use. We wanted you all to know about a program we are still in; called Rehab at Home... Penn Foundation. We have been in this program since Feb of this year and have seen great strides with our son. Thanks for the article...it eases our pain to know that we are not alone!!! Parents tend to be blamed and blame ourselves for everything that has gone on!! God Bless you all, and call Penn Foundation to find out about their program...
I know the Reids and their compassion all too well
Posted by Anonymous | Dec. 30, 2007 at 1:07 PM
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I happen to know the Reids and their boys. They are wonderful people. I know for a fact that although a lot of Andy's time has had to be spent working, there are still 6 more months in a year that football season does not possess. That family spends so much time together whenever possible and have always provided a loving and caring home for their children. My dad left when I was a kid and I did not have him in my life at all. I didn't go and commit crimes and go to jail. I know for a fact that Andy has spent several weeks going thru intense daily therapy with his boys and has never given up on them. Addiction is one horrible beast. I have been there. I became addicted to pain killers after going thru several surgeries and intense medical issues. I cared more about stopping the pain than caring for my wife and small baby boy. I allowed the addiction to take control of everything in my life. My wife and parents tried to offer help and tried to get me to stop. I lost my jo
Rehab needs the family team to make it work
Posted by Carol | Dec. 31, 2007 at 8:13 AM
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I lost my Father-in-law to the black hole of addiction. He stopped only when he was told he would die..but lived only 2 years. I have worked in various aspects the behavioral healthcare field for well over 20 years as a public relations and fundraising professional. When I returned to Penn Foundation 5 years ago, I was privileged to be part of the brainstorming that helped formulate Penn Foundation Recovery Center's Rehab-at-Home program. My push was "if only my family knew what to do to help..." I knew we (families)could make a difference if we were part of the cure. I attended some of our Family Education meetings and all the families were asking the same thing..."how can we help..I don't know what to do." Most rehab programs do not include the family...in fact many do not communicate with the family at all. Families need to know what to do. Rehab at home was born to give families 24/7 counseling telephone support. Now 5 years later I have volunteers who help me raise money
...to complete my thoughts
Posted by Carol | Dec. 31, 2007 at 9:10 AM
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The volunteers I mentioned are Moms and Dads of families who not have their children back after years of failure and thousands of dollars spent with no lasting results. These famuilies tell me I want to help because you (Penn Foundation) saved my son/daughter/ spouse. In my work I have discovered how many families are struggling with the horror and chaos of addiction. I always thought my family was the only one in the circle of my conservative religious community...The truth is addiction is everywhere, but we just don't talk about it. For the Reid's their pain, chaos and struggle has been "media-exposed" and high profile. Have compassion...We're here to help if you need us.
Learning how to deal with this insidious disease
Posted by Anonymous | Jan. 1, 2008 at 1:44 PM
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Drug addiction is not about what Andy and Tammy Reid do for a living or how much money they have. It is about a disease and a family trying to do what is right while trying to function in their daily lives. I was blind. We were a close family! We were involved parents! We are good “salt of the earth people”, yet we ultimately discovered a 10 year addiction in one of our children. Addiction is a very isolating disease for the patient and family. Dealing with addiction is a lifetime journey. Most people do not know our family is dealing with depression and drug addiction. You ask why? Because we .live in a very judgmental society. Please have compassion. The pain for the family is devastating. Fortunately we found Penn Foundation and Rehab at Home in Sellersville. Finally, effective help that includes our family, child and Penn Foundation’s expert counselors that have vast experience dealing with this tragic situation! Addiction is very insidious. Thank God we found support and h
I have walked a similar path...
Posted by Greg AKA Murdock | Jan. 1, 2008 at 6:36 PM
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I have read the interview in Philadelphia Magazine and I just want to share with you that I am diagnosed Bipolar I disorder as well as a recovering addict of many addictions. I have been to places in my past that I never wish to be again. It took me years to learn to walk the path of enlightenment which has totally enriched my life. I would like to share with you my web site, which tells of many of my past experiences...some good, and too many quite terrible. My web site is my special place that I call my "meeting". Please visit if you wish. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for allowing me to share. Murdock www.bipolarbutnotalone.com
Keep the Faith
Posted by Gina | Jan. 2, 2008 at 8:08 PM
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Andy and Tammy You just have to keep the faith and hope that the lord will guide your kids back to the life they know best the love of a family member is strong than anyone could have. Just remember in the Italian hertiage La Familia which means Family as long as there is family love you will have all.
ONE DAY AT A TIME
Posted by Anonymous | Jan. 3, 2008 at 4:52 PM
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Speaking as someone in recovery (sober 10yrs),the saying "one day at a time" isn't just for the addict but for the family as a whole. Its not an easy road for the abuser or the family, but it can be done. I'm sure the two of you know that it has to be the decision of your boys and not you to get sober. Thats a scary step for us to take, that first step "we are powerless over...", is like falling off a cliff. but the landing can be a sweet one. Hang tough with your boys. your family is in my prayers.
Help for the Families and Friends
Posted by Bonnie | Jan. 15, 2008 at 1:10 PM
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Think again if you believe the Reid family story isn’t relevant to the everyday American family. Millions of Americans from all walks of life suffer the tragedy of family addiction. An estimated 30% of Americans report that alcohol use has caused problems within their families; nearly 20% say the same thing about drugs. The suffering experienced by concerned family members and others in the drug user’s life comes in a variety of forms - medical problems, anxiety, insomnia, financial problems, trouble concentrating, difficulty participating in basic life activities – including in the workplace - and sometimes even domestic abuse. Fortunately, there are now good science-driven treatments that can teach people ways to interact differently with their substance abusing loved one – how to remain caring and in contact with them but avoid destroying their own lives, how to support their loved one’s recovery efforts, and how to avoid enabling their drug use. Call the Treatment Research Insti
Help for the Families (continued)
Posted by Bonnie | Jan. 15, 2008 at 1:16 PM
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Continuing on, spouses, siblings, parents, friends, partners and others worried about substance abuse in a loved one can call the Treatment Research Institute's Family Training Program in Philadelphia (toll-free 877-iWorry2 or 877-496-7792). You may be eligible to participate in a research study that offers free personalized training. Help is available.
chemical imbalance?
Posted by Anonymous | Jan. 17, 2008 at 11:12 AM
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as a recovering person, i appreciate the reid's discussing their son's challenges. but i have to say that not ALL addicts are covering up a chemical imbalance in the brain. i got clean from heroin 11 years ago, underwent treatment at that time, relapsed on oxycontin and underwent treatment again in august 2007. i've never been diagnosed with any disorder other than addiction, and i've been evaluated many times. believe me, the addiction's enough. sure, there are lots of addicts who use b/c of chemical imbalances, but there are plenty who are also just plain addicts. a dual diagnosis is not a requirment to be an addict. i just think it's important to state that.
good article
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